-Here are some tid bits of reality-
Before Baby Natalie: I had a less "stuff" in my car.
After Baby Natalie: I throw dirty diapers around like it's a giant wet bag. I leave old coffee cups to mold in the cup holder because my hands are too full to actually get them out of the car. Really?! Yes, I do.
Before: I wore make-up EVERY day and typically dried my hair, most often curling it to perfection.
After: I typically shower at some point, but make-up may only be mascara and bangs are all I can dry before she tells me I am done "primping"
Before: I enjoyed massages
After: the knots in my back from carrying prego weight and now Natalie is very painful when Whit tries to kill me on her massage table. I don't know how people pay someone like Whit for that kind of pain. :)
Before: Savored the flavor of my meals
After: Hoover down most anything in front of me because I may not get another chance to eat.
Before: Going to "run in and grab X at the grocery store" was fast, in and out!
After: It's an event. We plan for it. We take our time. We talk to most everyone in the market. Natalie bats her eyes, they all come running. It takes easily 4x more time for the same item after we buckle in, unbuckle to get out...ahhh! So many more steps.
I know it sounds like I am full of complaints, but I must say the AFTER's are far more pleasant.
Before: I had to go to work. Hear nothing but bitching and wining. This is broken, that is broken. Kate fix it. Drama drama drama.
After: I wake up to see Natalie's cute face. She helps me make coffee. I snuggle her, feed her, chat with her and she never asks for anything other than my undivided attention and sooner than later, POOF! It's 5pm and Ryan is due home soon.
Before: I had to rush after work to drag myself into a grocery store to figure out what to throw on the table.
After: I plan out what's for dinner as Natalie eats and we head to the market during nap time. We save money even by being prepared with a list. Nothing is rushed. We stop and smell the roses and don't mind how long check-out takes us.
Before: Rushed to halfway manage the yard, clean the house and throw in some laundry.
After: It may take us all week, but we make it all happen with high standards.
Before: Stressed over little things.
After: I didn't realize I stressed over silly things, but now it is much clearer. Life is what we make of it and we are making it calm, fun, simple and healthy.
Thank you for reading and have a great day!




































